My Life. My Truth. My Voice.

4 years, 351 days, 1 hour….. thats how long we’ve been together and I’ve loved every single second of those years, days and hours with you….

xoxoxoxo

Your the only one that knows EVERYTHING about me including all my secrets. You know when something is wrong just from the look on my face. Make me laugh when your not even trying. I feel so comfortable walking around our apartment in only a shirt and some panties on. That look you give me when you want to get it in, along with the way you gently touch my body all over. The only person I give my all and more too, trying my hardest too keep our relationship spicy and have you wanting more so you don’t get tired of our relationship. I love falling asleep and waking up too you every morning. Never a dull moment with you, You’ve created the best years of my life. No words can describe how much I appreciate everything little thing you do for me and our beautiful daughter. Therefore, your the only one I want to spend the rest of my life with….and I mean that from the bottom of my heart baby.

xoxoxo

for as little as it looks it’s a BIG word.

Thats what keeps a relationship strong and most importantly together. If you don’t have it then it will not work, so move on. Take my word on it.

Say you don’t trust your man/woman because he’s cheated and lied to you in the past. Do you think checking their phone, texts, facebook/twitter everyday is healthy? When they walk out that door you ask a million and one questions; “Where you going?”, “Whos going to be there?” and ”What time will you be back?” and when they haven’t arrived back at the time they told you… your mind automatically starts thinking the worst, which makes it War World II when they walk thru that door!

That’s fine for a couple of months….so you both can gain each others trust back. More, than a year though…NO. Not healthy. Either you or they will get annoyed and tired of all the questions as if your their parents. We’re all grown and need a spouse/partner not another parent which we all already have.

Once you trust them again DO NOT bring up the past, leave it in the past. It will same argument over and over. If your lover happens to lie or cheat again, then they don’t care about hurting you again. If you take them back the second time…this will be a constant routine. Because they know you will not leave. Be the strongest person to walk away. Not the one that falls for the lies. 

Trust your partner. Trust yourself. Trust Love.

xoxoxoxo

My laptop is fixed! How I missed Tumblr! (can’t stand the app)

Back to writing my feelings and experiences down! You do not know how many times I wanted to grab the laptop and just type away!

Now I’m back and See I have new followers! (:

Don’t we?

I mean in order to love someone we learn from our mistakes and own challenges. That right there teaches us how to love stronger. Love better than before.

We all know relationships are hard work on both parts. The pain we feel will eventually work its way up to happiness.

If you no longer feel the love then let it go. Its not the end of the world you just simply learn from it. Move on and continue to love.

Ladies, Let your man have his poker nights/ strip clubs with his boys. Have trust in him. The more you drill him with a million questions, tell him what he can and can’t do he will go out and do the opposite. Why? Because they want to be in control. The man of the house. The ‘KING’. So let him. It may bug you but don’t let him see or know it’s buggig you. We all need our time with our friends even us girls needs our girls night, he needs the same. Let the man breathe. And when he gets home just ask if he had a good night. That’s all. He will appreciate you letting him that guy time even though he wobt show or tell you. They’re guys, guys don’t express emotions unless they really want or have too. If he’s going to the strip club and it bothers you remember this ‘they’re just for entertainment, at the end of the night who is he coming home to?! Me!’

You can thank me later!!(;